Pesach: Where Should the Haggadah Begin?

par le Rav Raphaël Benizri

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Rav Raphaël Benizri’s first study on Pesach. Before the story of the Exodus is even told, the Seder night raises a question of method: where should the Haggadah begin? With slavery — “Avadim hayinu le-Pharaoh be-Mitzrayim” (עבדים היינו לפרעה במצרים), “we were slaves to Pharaoh in Egypt” — or with the idolatry of our origins — “Mi-tehillah ovdei avodah zarah hayu avoteinu” (מתחלה עובדי עבודה זרה היו אבותינו), “in the beginning our ancestors were idol worshippers”? The choice of a starting point determines everything that follows.

Around this question unfold the sin of Adam according to Maimonides, the Midrash of the truth sown in the earth, the place of the gerim (converts) and of “Av hamon goyim”, the Yah of “Min ha-metzar karati”, speech as the only link between the material and the spiritual worlds, and the shirah (song) that closes the Seder. The full transcript of the lecture follows the summary.

What this lecture teaches

Two possible openings for the Haggadah. On the Seder night, one question comes before the story itself: what will be the starting point of our reflection? “Avadim hayinu”, we were slaves — a condition we neither sought nor asked for, decided independently of us — or “Mi-tehillah ovdei avodah zarah hayu avoteinu”, the idolatry of our forefathers? Our Sages ultimately chose to put slavery first and to leave idolatry for second place. And rightly so, says the Rav: every time we agree to live in any kind of dependence, we are already idolaters.

Egypt, the source of all impurities. Following the Arizal, Mitzrayim had been defined as the source of all impurities — and therefore of all the exiles and all the calamities the Jewish people would later endure, and has never ceased to endure. The Exodus is thus not a closed chapter of history: it is the model for every departure from conditioning.

The sin of Adam according to Maimonides. All of man’s exile has its starting point in the sin of Adam HaRishon, a universal sin. Yet that sin is not merely the reduction of knowledge to a consumer product: for the Rambam it begins with the gaze the woman casts on the fruit, seduced by its outward appearance. The sin lies in the way we conceive the world before us — which is why the Rambam, when he speaks of the good and the evil inclination, never speaks of drive or impulse, but of conception.

Why man had to be sown outside the garden. To place everything in his hands while making sure he could not decide for himself would have been to turn his Garden of Eden into Gehinnom: what would his merit be then? He would be shut out of the process of creation and would no longer be in the image of G-d. To be in the image of G-d is to embrace His attributes: to bestow good, to visit the sick, to care for the dead. The Torah shows the Creator Himself sewing garments for man, visiting Avraham Avinu, burying Moshe Rabbeinu with His own hands.

Resemblance is not enough: one must participate. Resemblance is an identity, but it is not enough. One must also take part in sustaining the creation of the world — and taking part does not mean being a conservative who leaves the world as it is. One must create the world in the same way G-d does: He uncovers the world, He reveals the nature of the world, and man is called to do the same.

“Emet me-eretz titzmach”: truth sown in the earth. The Midrash relates that the divine attributes contested the creation of man — he is a liar, he will do harm, he feeds quarrels — while others defended him: he too is capable of rising, of giving life. G-d then cast truth to the ground, “ve-tashlech emet artzah” (Daniel 8:12), and the ministering angels rose up in protest. His answer: from now on I want truth to spring up from the earth. To cast truth to the ground, the Rav stresses, is not to throw it away but to sow it. G-d does not want a world governed by a truth that is exclusively heavenly and out of reach: He wants man himself to take part in the revelation.

The Torah is not given only from above. Man discovered part of it — as with the book of Devarim, the Mishneh Torah, which was countersigned and incorporated. Our Sages even say that had the Torah not been given, we would have learned from the ant not to steal and from the cat modesty: the animal kingdom carries laws of nature that are part of creation, and man observes them, lays them bare and internalizes them. In this way he becomes a partner in the covenant. Just as the farmer sows a tiny fraction of what he will reap, what the Jewish people is called to sow must be followed by an immense harvest.

“Atem keruyim adam”: the prototype and the spectrum. You are called Adam; you are the prototype of Adam. Others are too, in different degrees. And there is a broad spectrum of Jewish identities, some more demanding than others. But the essential point lies elsewhere: this identity gathers in the whole of humanity.

We are gerim at the source. Avraham is the first ger, and a ger creates himself: he is not the continuation of some evolution, but someone who broke with what he was and gave himself a new life. If Judaism was later passed on through the mother, it is because a mode of functioning had to be adopted — but to whoever wishes to take upon himself this creation, to be in the image of the Creator, the gates are open, provided he is sincere.

What remained of the forefathers in the depths of Egypt. We were an integral part of Egypt, yet we had preserved a few of our ancestors’ rules of life and developed them, wishing to remain faithful to the path of Avraham. From there HaKadosh Baruch Hu (the Holy One, blessed be He) tore us out of the very bowels of Egypt: a new creation. And through this we remain like Avraham Avinu, “Av hamon goyim” (Genesis 17:5), the father of universality. The Jewish people has no right to shut itself up in any structure, except to protect itself from its own weaknesses; its duty is to sow the truth. G-d exiled it among the nations only to increase the number of gerim.

Why the gates of conversion will close. In messianic times, people would come forward only out of self-interest — as one sometimes sees even today: a copied Judaism, an aped Judaism, not lived from within but conditioned by an outward gaze. “Va-tere ha-ishah” (Genesis 3:6): the woman saw that the tree was good, and from that single gaze one begins to judge all that is good.

Leaving all self-conditioning. The phenomenon of the Exodus means leaving all conditioning, all abundance, and moving forward each time anew — which is possible only if one believes that all of creation is yesh me-ayin, being drawn from nothingness. To conceive, on the contrary, that this world would not exist without me, that my self is indispensable to it — that is truly idolatry: “I make myself.” No one makes himself; it is absurd.

Not leaving idolatry, but fixed ideas. That is why our Sages preferred, in the Haggadah, to define the Jewish people not by its abandonment of idolatry, but by its abandonment of preconceived ideas, fixed ideas, the world we fashion for ourselves and by ourselves. That is the starting point of all idolatry — and from that starting point we have not yet departed.

The Yah: the present inscribed in the future. “Min ha-metzar karati Yah” (Psalms 118:5), “from the narrow place I called upon Yah.” The heh is in the breath of the present, the yud in the projection of the future: to inscribe the present in the future is to sign one’s own Exodus, that is, one’s own creation in the image of the Creator. That is why it is not celebrated once a year: the Exodus is recalled morning and evening in prayer; it is our point of reference; it is in the Shema Yisrael.

A clear language and the seven Noahide laws. “Az ehpokh el amim safah verurah” (Zephaniah 3:9): I will give the peoples a clear language that affirms the unity of G-d. Affirming this unity does not necessarily mean practicing the whole Torah in its every detail: some can do so, others will content themselves with the Noahide laws. In messianic times humanity will adopt them as rules of conduct — but out of recognition of G-d and of the fact that these laws emanate from Him.

The Mashiach’s sense of smell and “lo tachmod”. Between physical and spiritual reality there is always a tension: in one we belong to the reality of the angels, in the other we are merely evolved animals endowed with speech. But there is a sense of smell that will be the hallmark of the Mashiach: he will divine the truth by scenting it, as the ant scents a grain of wheat and turns away from the one its neighbor has already taken. This instinct not to steal, not to covet what belongs to another: when one knows that “lo tachmod” (you shall not covet) is its furthest point, one realizes that what I must bring to fulfillment is myself.

Speech, the only bridge between the two worlds. What establishes contact between the material world and the spiritual world? Speech, and nothing else — for by it the world was created: “Bi-dvar Hashem shamayim na’asu” (Psalms 33:6), “by the word of Hashem the heavens were made.” All the prophets prophesied with “Koh amar Hashem”, “thus says Hashem”: they do not convey exactly what G-d said, but its content, each in his own style, with different nuances. For it is hard to reach that higher truth, “Zeh ha-davar”, “this is the thing,” where the object is one with the word.

The malchut of speech and the throat of Moshe. Those who chose to cleave to His word are His emissaries; this choice to cleave is malchut, the attribute of kingship, for man is king only through his speech, through what he expresses by means of his person. Who held this power of speech? Moshe: “Shechinah medaberet mi-toch grono shel Moshe”, the Divine Presence spoke from his throat, from his vocal cords. He touched that fiftieth degree of wisdom, that fiftieth gate of revelation.

The kohen, the one who brings near. And we, where do we stand? Kohen is related to karov, nearness: he is the educator of the people, the one who brings the material world close to the spiritual world. This is the meaning of the korban — korban means bringing near; kesher means binding. The kohen binds this lower world to the upper world, creation to the source from which it emanates. And Israel, in relation to the nations, is called “mamlechet kohanim” (Exodus 19:6): a kingdom of kohanim, bound to bring every element back to its source.

The goal is not to convert at any cost. The secret of the Exodus lies in speech, in the word in motion: to rediscover the true resonance of speech and make it resound on many levels. Just as there are several registers and their variants, we must adapt our language to the level of the listener — for the goal is not to convert at any cost. There will be gerim, “ke-katan she-nolad”, like a newborn child, who will be able to claim Avraham as their father; but perhaps not all will be able to embrace this language en masse. Let them at least be in unison with the Jewish people in proclaiming His unity.

Setting things in order, and the song that liberates. That is why, on the eve of Pesach, at the Seder, we begin by setting things in order: within ourselves, in our ideas, in our dialogue with our wife, our children, our friends, the outside world, our neighbor, the poor. And those who lack the capacity to meet our demands — let them at least accompany us in song: song fuses all words into one. Shirah is when speech becomes song — then it carries all of humanity along in its surge, and it sets free.

Full transcript of the lecture

The starting point of the Seder: slavery or idolatry

Yes. We have already defined Egypt, Mitzrayim, following the Arizal, as the source of all impurities — and so, of course, as the source of all the exiles, of all the calamities the Jewish people would later endure and has never ceased to endure.

And on the night of the Haggadah we ask ourselves: what will be the starting point of our reflection? Shall we take as our starting point “Avadim hayinu le-Pharaoh be-Mitzrayim”, we were slaves to Pharaoh in Egypt? We did not seek it, we did not ask for it, it was decided independently of us, was it not? We were thrown into Egypt, condemned to be in Egypt.

Or should we examine our starting point from the reflection that ought to open with “Mi-tehillah ovdei avodah zarah hayu avoteinu”, in the beginning our ancestors were idol worshippers? And in what order of preference should we take up one or the other part of the meditation that is asked of us on the night of the Pesach Seder?

In the end, we opted for “Avadim hayinu”, we were slaves in Egypt, and left “Mi-tehillah ovdei avodah zarah hayu avoteinu”, in the beginning our ancestors were idol worshippers, for second place.

And rightly so. Every time we agree to live in any kind of dependence, we are idolaters.

The sin of Adam according to Maimonides: a conception of the world

For all of man’s exile has its starting point in the sin of Adam, the sin of this Adam HaRishon, universal man. But is Adam’s sin simply that he reduced knowledge to a consumer product?

For Maimonides — no. For Maimonides, the starting point of Adam’s sin lies in the gaze the woman casts upon the fruit of the tree; that is, when the woman looks at the fruit of the tree of knowledge and lets herself be seduced by its outward appearance, thinking that it was truly good to eat.

That is the moment the sin begins. The sin lies in how we conceive the world before us. Indeed, this is why the Rambam, when he speaks of the evil inclination or the good inclination, does not speak of impulse, does not speak of tendency: he speaks of conception.

It is conceiving the good, or it is the conception of evil. Either we truly seek the truth in its essence and try to internalize it, and not only to […].

Man sown outside the garden: embracing the attributes of the Creator

[…] That is what G-d did at the very beginning. In truth, man had to be sown outside the Garden of Eden. To place everything in his hands, in such a way that he could not decide for himself, would have been to turn his Garden of Eden into Gehinnom, into hell. For what would his merit be then? What would he do? He would be shut out of the process of creation, and that would considerably reduce his own creation. He would no longer be in the image of G-d.

To be in the image of G-d is to embrace His attributes. HaKadosh Baruch Hu wanted, in creating man, that he too should be a bestower of good, that he should visit the sick, that he should care for the departed and their burial — just as He Himself does.

That is the image of the Creator the Torah gives us. From the very beginning He bestows His goodness. He even sews garments for man, to cover his nakedness. He visits the sick — Avraham Avinu. He takes care to bury Moshe Rabbeinu Himself.

These are the attributes that matter. These are the attributes by virtue of which we were fashioned in the likeness of HaKadosh Baruch Hu.

Now, to resemble the Creator is an identity, but it is not enough. The author of […] teaches that it is not only a matter of practicing kindness, not only of embracing the attributes of the Eternal, but also of taking part in sustaining the creation of the world.

Taking part in sustaining the creation of the world does not mean being a conservative. It does not mean leaving the world as it is and trying to preserve it as best one can. No — one must create the world in the same way that G-d does. He uncovers the world, He reveals the nature of the world, and man is called to do the same.

Truth cast to the ground so that it may spring up

In short, in the same way, at the creation of man, the attributes began to contest this will of HaKadosh Baruch Hu to make a being in His likeness. They say: “But he is a liar! What are You about to create? Someone who will do harm, one who feeds quarrels.”

And yet there were defenders of the creation of this extraordinary being, who said: “No, he too is capable of rising. Why not create him? He is also capable of finding compromises in life, of giving life. Why not?”

He is torn: should He, or should He not? And the Midrash tells us: He cast truth to the ground, “ve-tashlech emet artzah.” And the ministering angels protested: “How dare You cast truth to the ground — truth, the royal seal of Your creation, of Your kingdom, of Your rule?”

And He answers: “From now on, I want truth to spring up from the ground, from the earth — ‘Emet me-eretz titzmach.’ I do not want the world to be governed by a truth that is exclusively heavenly, out of man’s reach. I want man himself to take part in the revelation.”

Discovering the Torah, sowing the truth

It is important to know that the Torah is not given entirely and exclusively from above: man discovered part of it, as he did with the book of Devarim, the Mishneh Torah, which was countersigned and which he incorporated.

Of course, our Sages say that had the Torah not been given to Israel, we would have learned from the ant not to steal, and from the cat discretion, modesty.

Yes, even in the animal kingdom there are exceptional laws of nature that are part of creation. And man observes them, discovers them, lays them bare, internalizes them. And in this he truly becomes a partner in the covenant with […].

And in this way, just as the farmer sows to every wind, yet what he sows is a tiny fraction compared with the harvest, HaKadosh Baruch Hu willed that even what the Jewish people is called to sow in His universe should be accompanied by an immense harvest.

And that is why, in the same way, He cast truth to the ground — but casting truth to the ground is not throwing it away; it is sowing it — sowing the truth in the universe of creation and saying to man: “Now bring it to light, discover it, teach it, share it.”

“Atem keruyim adam”: we are gerim at the source

And that is the phenomenon of the Exodus, Yetziat Mitzrayim. G-d needed to create this Adam, this structure of Adam: “Atem keruyim adam”, you are called Adam, you are the prototype of Adam.

Does that mean the others are not? They are, in different degrees. Is the prototype of Adam truly the Jew as people try to define him, either […] or modern? There is a spectrum of Jewish identities. Obviously, some are more demanding than others.

But what is essential is that this identity gathers in the whole of humanity. We are gerim at the source. Avraham is the first ger. And a ger creates himself. A ger is not the continuation of some evolution: he is someone who broke with what he was and gave himself a new life. And that is what we are at our origin, in our essence.

If later it continued to be said that this Judaism, this Jewish identity, is conferred through the mother, it is because a mode of functioning had to be adopted. But a ger — whoever wishes to take upon himself this creation of the being that makes us wish to be in the image of G-d, in the image of the Creator — the gates are open to him, provided he is sincere in his path.

Torn from the bowels of Egypt: a new creation

In the Exodus, in this first phenomenon, we were an integral part of Egypt. But we had preserved a few of our ancestors’ rules of life and developed them, so that we wished to remain faithful to the path of Avraham.

And HaKadosh Baruch Hu, […] truly tore us out of the labor, out of the very bowels of Egypt, and that is a new creation.

This is an important idea, because through it we remain like Avraham Avinu, the father of universality, “Av hamon goyim”, the father of the entire world. And the Jewish people has no right to shut itself up in any structure whatsoever, except to protect itself against its own weaknesses; but its duty is to sow the truth.

G-d exiled the Jewish people among the nations only to increase the number of gerim. There is a potential here, and that potential must be discovered. And this is important, because in messianic times the gates of conversion will be closed. It will no longer be possible to become a ger.

Leaving all self-conditioning

Why? Because at that point it will simply be out of self-interest, as one sometimes sees today: a copied Judaism, an aped Judaism, a Judaism not lived from within, conditioned by an outward gaze. “Va-tere ha-ishah”: the woman saw that the tree was good, and one judges all that is good from that single gaze.

That is the whole problem, and that is why the phenomenon of the Exodus is to leave all self-conditioning, all abundance, and to try each time to move forward. And I have said it before: we can do this only if we believe that all of creation is yesh me-ayin, being drawn from nothingness.

[…] to go from the absence of self toward a world to one’s own measure, one’s own dimension. To conceive that this world would not exist without me, and that my self is indispensable to this world — that is truly idolatry.

That is it, […]: “I make myself, I am myself.” No, no one makes himself; that is absurd. One does not come into the world like that, starting out from nothing. No. One makes oneself smaller in order to discover […].

This is an important teaching, and it is why our Sages preferred, in the Pesach Haggadah, to begin identifying the Jewish people not by its abandonment of idolatry, but by its abandonment of preconceived ideas, of fixed ideas, of the world we fashion for ourselves and by ourselves. And that is the starting point of all idolatry. We have not left idolatry.

“Min ha-metzar karati Yah”: the present inscribed in the future

Indeed, as soon as it left Egypt, the people needed to reveal within itself […]: “Anochi Hashem Elokecha”, I am Hashem your G-d. I am Hashem your G-d who brought you out of Egypt — when you have accomplished your own Exodus; otherwise it is not possible. That is the whole definition of this conditioning.

“Min ha-metzar karati Yah”: from the narrow place I called upon Yah. What is the Yah? The heh is in the breath of the present, and the yud is in the projection of the future. I have inscribed the present in the future, and in so doing I have signed my own Exodus, that is, my own creation in the image of my Creator.

This idea is very important, for it is not something to celebrate once a year: we recall the Exodus to ourselves morning and evening in prayer, do we not? The Exodus is our point of reference. The Exodus is in the Shema Yisrael.

The Shema, the clear language and the Noahide laws

And what is the vision of this Shema Yisrael? “Az ehpokh el amim safah verurah”: I will give the peoples a limpid, clear language that affirms the unity of G-d. Affirming the unity of G-d does not necessarily mean practicing the whole Torah in its every detail. There are those who can do so, but there are those who will content themselves with the Noahide laws.

And in the future, in messianic times, humanity will adopt the seven Noahide laws as rules of conduct — but out of recognition of G-d and of the fact that these laws emanate from Him.

The Mashiach’s sense of smell and “lo tachmod”

For there is indeed always a tension between this physical reality and this spiritual reality. And in principle, one is either in the one or in the other. If one is in the one, one belongs to the reality of the angels. If one is in the other, we are simply evolved animals, even if endowed with speech. That is all very well.

But there is a language of birds, there is a language of animals, and there is a sense of smell that will be the hallmark of the Mashiach. How will the Mashiach divine the truth? He will scent it. And how will he scent it? The way the ant scents the grain of wheat. That grain of wheat has already been taken by its neighbor: it will not touch it, will not try to snatch it, it will turn away from it.

There is, within it, this instinct not to steal what belongs to another, not to covet what belongs to another. And when one knows that “lo tachmod” is the extreme point — not the opposite, the extreme point — of […], one realizes that, in the end, what I must bring to fulfillment is myself. What I must discover is my own person.

Speech, the link between the material and the spiritual world

The life I live is worth something only because I want to reach […]. By what means? By means of speech. What establishes contact between the material world here below and the spiritual world? Speech. Nothing else. For by speech the world was created, for speech can accomplish everything: “Bi-dvar Hashem shamayim na’asu” — everything is made, everything is brought into being, by His word.

And this is what our Sages highlighted when they said that all the prophets prophesied with “Koh amar Hashem”, “thus says Hashem.” They do not report exactly what G-d said, but they report its content. They recount it to us, each in his own style. Not all the prophets use the same expression, but the substance is one and the same, under different aspects, different nuances.

But why? Because it is hard to reach that higher truth, “Zeh ha-davar”, where the object is one with the word, where the word reproduces the object. That is not at our level — but let the word at least reproduce something that resembles it.

The malchut of speech and the throat of Moshe

[…] And He indeed chose His emissaries, these prophets, who chose to cleave to His word. This choice to cleave to the word is malchut, the attribute of kingship. Man is king only through his speech, through what he says, through what he expresses by means of his person.

And this with many nuances, of course; but the davar is what can govern absolutely. So who held this power of speech? Moshe. […] It is the word that the Eternal speaks: the Divine Presence spoke from the throat of Moshe, “Shechinah medaberet mi-toch grono shel Moshe”, from the vocal cords of Moshe.

Yes, Moshe truly reached — he touched — that fiftieth degree of wisdom, that fiftieth degree of understanding, that fiftieth gate of revelation.

The kohen, the one who brings near

But where do we stand? It is […] who says: note well, kohen too comes from “karov”, from nearness. Why? Because he is the educator of the people, the one who brings the material world and the spiritual world close together — that is the meaning of the korban. Korban means bringing near; “kesher” means binding. The kohen, then, is the one who binds this lower world to the upper world, who binds creation to its source of emanation.

And it is by virtue of this that he is a kohen: he has the capacity to do it. And the people of Israel, in relation to the nations, is called “mamlechet kohanim”: it too is a kingdom of kohanim, so that it is our duty to bring every element near to its source.

Adapting our language: the goal is not to convert

That is the secret of the teaching […], and the reason why the secret of this Exodus lies in speech, in the word in motion: rediscovering the true meaning, the resonance of speech, and making it resonate across many ranges, many planes of resonance.

Just as there may be several registers, […], and their variants, and there may even be those who are absent, we must adopt — adapt, rather — our language to the level of the listener. For the goal is not to convert at any cost.

There will be gerim, there will be converts who will be on a par with Israel, “ke-katan she-nolad”, like a newborn child, and who can claim Avraham as their father. But perhaps not all of them will be able to embrace this language en masse. Then at least they must be in unison with the Jewish people in proclaiming His unity.

Setting things in order, and the song that liberates

And that is why we will begin, on the eve of Pesach, at the Pesach Seder, by setting things in order: order within ourselves, order in our ideas, order in our dialogue with our wife, our children, our friends, the outside world, our neighbor, the poor.

Those who lack the capacity needed to meet our demands should at least be able to accompany us in song. Song is what truly fuses all words into a single word.

And it is on this that we close: shirah is when speech becomes song. Then it carries all of humanity along in its surge, and song is liberating — at different levels, but liberating.

A study by Rav Raphaël Benizri. See also all the Pesach lectures.

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